Check out the Fujifilm F200 EXR. They're fairly new on the market and you may only be able to find them on line. I have one and I like it for the same purposes you described. The camera on the surface appears to be like every other little compact digital camera these days. The feature that swayed me into getting it is its "EXR" mode. Normally the camera, in the usual Auto, P, etc. modes gives you 12MP files and it pretty much performs like any other little 12MP camera. BUT... in the EXR mode it does a very unusual thing. EXR is a 'smart' mode that reads what the lens is seeing and decides if the highlights are going to get blown out or the shadows are going to be lost. It then instantaneously creates TWO 6MP files (one that is exposed for the highlights and one for everything else) and then somehow instantly combines them... sort of like an instant "HDR" kind of thing. It works pretty well. You can read about it on seriouscompacts.com.
Enjoy.