Colyn,
All I'll say is this - I consider Paypal to be the enemy. They are against both buyer and seller in pursuit of the quarterly wall street profit statement. Sometimes a person has to deal with them, alas, but you always have to realize that Paypal will scr*w all users (buyers, sellers, etc) in favor of quarterly profits. It is not a question of if but rather one of when.
When I have a choice I use USPO money orders because there is a _real_ buyer protection capability there - the threat of federal felony mail fraud prosecution 😉 Paypal was, is, and always will be, a sick joke. Keeping that in mind allows one to use it carefully when there is no other option.
Please stick to your decision to never accept them again. It's only by us, the consumer, refusing to be ratfu*ked on a regular basis that we will gain any control over the markets that we use.
William