Sparrow
Veteran
Google the words "Etan Patz".
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I did, what convinced you his abductor was a photographer?
Google the words "Etan Patz".
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Yes and it's within my(or anyone else's) rights to ignore that, unless it's your property we are at. Now, I'm not trying to start an argument, and if you'd ask me nice - I'd probably say "Ok, no problem" and walk away. But if you get in my face with this, trust me - you would get same in return. Also, it's all within reason - if I was standing on a street and taking a photo of a building and your child runs into the frame - sorry - not my problem, and I expect NOT to be confronted with - "dont take pics of my child!" .
I am a non-public figure, I don't seek publicity, and it's entirely within my rights to ask someone not to photograph my small son.
I'm a very zealous advocate of "photographer's rights", but photographing someone's children without their permission is not one of them.
Do you have children?
Would you feel perfectly at ease if a stranger took photos of them without your permission and posted them on various forums, Flickr, and/or other online sites?
Whether or not it is actually something that could lead to danger to the kids, it's pure rudeness and disregard for my privacy.
Like I said, I am strongly in favor of less restrictions for photographers, but this is not an inherent "right".
If you can't comprehend that, then there's no need for further discussion.
I like to believe I am a human being who has certain rights that should be respected by other civilized humans, including the right not be continually recorded.
Some of the best gallery photos ever posted on this forum are street photos of children (e.g. Beniliam). I doubt if any of them were taken with permission etc.
Well, I won't argue with you. You live in the UK, where the State feels it needs to monitor every public space with millions of cameras.
Enjoy being programmed into having all your rights stripped away methodically.
I like to believe I am a human being who has certain rights that should be respected by other civilized humans, including the right not be continually recorded.
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Uh, in the US you are constantly 'under surveillance' I live in the middle of nowhere in rural VT and there are cameras at every gas station, every cash machine, every bank, the grocery, and in every store and hallway in our (s)mall. It is inescapable. When my speedpass died I was presented with a printout from the security camera of me pumping gas when I next stopped in the local minimart- in a village with a population of 50 tops. Is it better or ok to be photographed secretly? Your kids are photographed every time you shop like it or not.
I usually just offer to call the police for the harasser these days, it seems to work pretty well- they just decide that it isn't worth their time waiting around for the cops to show.
When in public we have no privacy beyond what our clothing conceals. If you ask me not to photograph your kid nicely I'll happily comply. If you jump down my throat about it I'll also stop, but I'll just as likely call the cops on you for assault. Get a grip. Picture Paranoia indeed. What do you think is going to happen should a picture of your kid appears online?
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(this is my kid not Jack's)
Well, you sound like a model citizen. Ever hear the word "meshugana"?
(Which Face of Eve is voicing these opinions? The Genius or The Moron?)
Once I ask you to stop photographing my children, that's where your right to do so ends, in my opinion.
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Interestingly, that's not where you started:PS: Some people could care less if you shoot photos of their kids, and that's fine. But when someone asks you not to do it, and you refuse, then you are way over the line.
Your initial problem wasn't whether you'd asked someone to stop and they'd refused (a matter of manners, which is the position you've retreated to). No, your original position was that, by hook or by crook, deliberate or not, taking photos of childeren was and is wrong.I'd be angry if you took photos of my kid. Your photo looks like you WERE taking photos of the kids, even if you say you were taking photos of "sun and shadows".
Today I drove a friend to Walmart so that he could pick up his insuline perscription. I was sitting in my car waiting for him to finish. I was in parked in a handicaped space near the entrance. I decided to play with the 590 IS that rides in my CompuDaypack.
I especially like the "gut reaction" part. My mother has terminal lung cancer. Of a slow-growing kind, a metastasis from an earlier cancer of the tongue. While Mum suffers from shortness of breath, she hasn't used disabled parking spaces until recently. That has followed from her recent surgery to remove a tennis-ball sized carcinoma in the left frontal lobe of her brain. Recovery from that (for someone in her mid-70's) has not been swift. On the one hand Mum likes to, still, be able to shop. On the other hand, she's become somewhat disheartened by the reaction of so many people who loudly disparage her when Dad parks in a disabled parking space (to which she is perfectly entitled) and she has the ill-grace to walk rather than use a wheelchair.Perhaps the initial complaint to security wasn't about you and your camera. Perhaps it's the fact that your car was occupying the handicapped parking space and they didn't see your need for it (at the time) since your were out photographing and not shopping.
Just a gut reaction...