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Fred,
If the payment is not fully refundable through Paypal without a lot of effort to get back the Paypal fees, make one offer to return the amount sent minus the receiving fee, and state there were no conditions agreed upon so he sent a subjective payment without conditions that you are not even required to return, but rather he may contact Paypal to reverse the payment himself; come what may for him. If he does not comply with your conditions of returning the money minus the fee (which he will lose some of due to receiving fee on his end), and will not challenge Paypal to reverse the transaction, keep the money.
He may learn something from it, but it is not your job to teach him, just hold your own and keep personal investment to a manageable amount of tolerance that you would expend for someone in person.
He sent money without any kind of an agreement, so there is no expectation from you. You can not force money upon someone and expect them to pony up what you want. You can say no, and tell him that the interaction has become a burden on you in which he is committing bribery, all of which are not in the original conditions of the sale of the item; if the original conditions are not being acted upon and there is no agreement you are not liable for anything.
If the payment is not fully refundable through Paypal without a lot of effort to get back the Paypal fees, make one offer to return the amount sent minus the receiving fee, and state there were no conditions agreed upon so he sent a subjective payment without conditions that you are not even required to return, but rather he may contact Paypal to reverse the payment himself; come what may for him. If he does not comply with your conditions of returning the money minus the fee (which he will lose some of due to receiving fee on his end), and will not challenge Paypal to reverse the transaction, keep the money.
He may learn something from it, but it is not your job to teach him, just hold your own and keep personal investment to a manageable amount of tolerance that you would expend for someone in person.
He sent money without any kind of an agreement, so there is no expectation from you. You can not force money upon someone and expect them to pony up what you want. You can say no, and tell him that the interaction has become a burden on you in which he is committing bribery, all of which are not in the original conditions of the sale of the item; if the original conditions are not being acted upon and there is no agreement you are not liable for anything.