By and large I can't stand it.
But it's not because of what it is, it is as others have said how it is applied.
I see a lot, and I mean more than the good examples (of which I think there are very few) to 'save' an image that in terms of composition is a bad image regardless. And so HDR is used to lift it up to make up for the fact it's a poor photo. And because it's complete overcooked; it gets a lot of attention.
That said a couple of black and white prints I gave to someone before Christmas was returned with a chat with their son asking whether I used HDR (I guess the range of tones exceeded what he was used to.)
The problem I have with it is that HDR is an attempt to capture the colour range that the human eye can see, or at very least emulate some of the range you would get in a good print from a negative. But; for some reason it always comes out looking completely unnatural to me. And that's where my concern comes in about it strongest: in photographic taste and subject I'm enthused by the often overlooked, the boring facets of reality and everyday; so anything that appears removed from this reality in terms of processing I struggle with. It's a limitation in me I think -- but that's a whole 'nother topic!
If I am to be even handed, HDR looks unreal to my eyes, but then I do question how is that any different to me taking pictures of say, a deprived or struggling neighbourhood in good light and composing it in the most sympathetic manner I can? Is that not in itself manipulating the 'truth' too?
And I guess it is! But it suits my perception of the truth. Anyway, I'm beginning to think philosophically but this is not the time or place.
A good example of this is when I exhibited some photos of a struggling neighbourhood for my Impression Milton Keynes project. (The people there are -- those I have met -- lovely people though; and this is on the street, not in some convivial community hall get together thing creating some constructed reality...there I go again...)
Coffee Hall, MK, England (by me, Kodak Ektar and a chance evening of extraordinary light)
And here's another of Coffee Hall not by me:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/30890318@N06/3717106350/
So which is the truth?
How are any of these any more real? How can I claim a 'somehow' moral high ground because I've not used HDR? Is there some kind of moral complex in the use of HDR? Why is my picture more real than say a HDR image? Or maybe it's not.
Of course there is artistic vision too.
Anyway....
I could go on, maybe I will on my blog at some point!
Vicky