I would be careful about being critical of someones work around here. I recently in the thread '100 eyes' expressed my lack of enthusiasm for the photographers ability that were presenters. Here is what I got:
Sisyphus: You are arrogant and your comments are unwarranted (whatever that means).
Le Vrai Rdu: You are quite arrogant.
Pablito: You must be a superstar compared to the presenters.
And the most constructive by Robklurfied (R, you really should try to expand your vocabulary, words are power): I am by implication an anatomical part in the rectal area that is odoriferous.
Sounds familiar; attack your critics.
Dear John,
You make reference to statements from several of us from another post without quoting the statements, which has the effect of removing them from any context. The statement that I made to which are referring is totally misconstrued. I intended no offense to anyone.
The quote was (and, I can't remember which famous sage I am quoting): "Opinions are like a--holes; everybody has one and most of them stink."
John, that statement refers to the WHOLE of the human race of which you and I are both members. Taken in context, what it means is that neither your opinion nor mine is anything but an opinion (ie, "IMHO"). Mine is as potentially "stinky" as yours.
The point of me sticking that quote into the 100 eyes thread was NOT, I repeat: NOT, to offend you or anyone else. Not my style. In fact, what I trying to do was cool the rapidly overheating rhetoric on that thread with some people throwing verbal darts at you and you throwing back. My commentary was about how quickly we ALL can descend into nastiness.
All the statements made by anyone anywhere about the quality of art are necessarily nothing but opinions. There are no facts when giving criticism and stating what we like and don't like.
I am sorry if you were offended. Not my intention at all.
That said, to drop into this thread some ill feelings you had left over from that thread without actually quoting what others would I and others actually said is sophistry -- a mere rhetorical trick.
I am sure that you are no more nor less an a--hole than anyone on RFF, me included. My opinion probably often stinks. (I rigorously avoid saying anything negative about anyone in public fora. If you read back at the 100 Eyes thread, I believe you will see that my statement was not directed at you.)
Anyway, if I offended you, please accept my apologies. I was as much annoyed at the way people responded to your opinion as I was at the tone with which you dismissed the link the starter of that thread had posted (you have to admit, you comments were pretty strong).
My own attitude is, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything. When I see a post I like, I say so in a reply. When I see one I don't like, I try to avoid saying anything and move on to another post. I figure others would much rather hear encouragement than anything else.
I don't know enough to post on the critique forums here; I have opinions, but I'm no expert. I went to grad school to study film production. What does that prove. Only that I qualified for student loans.
Anyone here who doesn't think their own sh*t stinks is probably fooling himself/herself. Me included. Mine stinks. Yours does, too. No reason not be friendly here. We're all human
Rob K