I don’t think that being a “good photographer” is a big deal. There are millions of good photographers. I believe it likely that there are far fewer bad photographers than good ones. It’s probably best not to think about whether or not one is good and far better to ask oneself if you stand out from the crowd of the good ones (in a good way of course).
One thing I know for sure is that I’m a better photographer than I am a poet, painter and singer.
I can cook food that tastes good but that doesn't make me a good cook. A good cook can consistently produce good food meal after meal after meal.
Clearly I am overthinking this.
Lastly, I agree with a lot of what others have said. Especially what Bob Michaels said.
And lastly, lastly, yes, I’m good in bed. You can take my word for it! 😀
All the best,
Mike