All this is known as The Figjam Syndrome. Modesty and good manners forbid me to define this in exact terms, but at least I can tell you that the last three letters stand for "just ask me".
Modesty and proper manners aside, I know I'm good - my clients tell me so by buying my images. Which tells me I am, even if what I think I really am is a hack who has somehow made it to the top of the hack-pile.
(Noted that like many others, I also have yet to post any photos. So there...)
Since the '80s I've earned reasonable money, more so then than now with the promiscuous profusion of digicrap images on the internet, from my stock shooting, mostly of architecture and Asian cultures. Sadly, the oncoming of the global apocalypse and ever declining media markets have badly dented my traditional sales in the last decade, but I manage to get just enough work sold every year to strengthen my self-image as a good photographer. Which is okay enough for me.
We live in fast-changing times and now in my early seventies I find myself scanning a lot of my early work and marveling at not only how much better I was than I thought I was in those days, but how much my photography has tended to repeat itself in familiar patterns and how my images have tended to stultify and even fossilize to an extent, since 1991 when I finally became respectable and propelled myself upward into a profession (architecture).
Of course these days architecture as a business means almost as little as photography as a career - so in essence I feel my life has been more or less a rotating wheel and I've basically returned to where I started off in life as a TLR shooter in my early teens - trying to make the best possible images from the insanity I saw and still see all around me out there in the real world. I do the best I can and I try to put something of myself into all the images I make. As for whether or not others see this or even like my work, well, figjam to you all.
It's all fun and I've enjoyed it, which in the summing up, is what it's all about anyway, isn't it?
(As for "good in bed", well, I don't know. Modesty again. Cannot recall any complaints. Written testimonials will be submitted if formally requested.)