I just read somewhere (forgot the link), that it not just bending the stop arm, but (originally, in my M2, not M3) the arm is twisted (bend like in rotation motion), so by twisting it in other direction, you can get the stop arm straight and will add some more space before it hit the stopper
one more,
open the bottom plate of the camera, try to open the bottom internal cover. over there you will see a hole which access to small cover in your Film opening area (or mirror box in SLR), you can try to rotate the small cover (with small plier) from bottom and the cover in the mirror box area will fall out.
then you can use screw driver to turn the ecentric stopper screw (overtravel adjustment in the picture by ferider post) to have the minimum area on the stop arm side.
that will as well help you add/reduce the stoper distance of the arm without bending/twisting the arm (in not "destructive" way)