Another viable alternative.....
Another viable alternative.....
I actually think that the Om-D is a wonderful camera capable of really wonderful shots. I personally down't like the EVF - first time I've tried one. But the death knell is that my wife is now not willing to use it because it seems to complicated - which is understandable after the hours and hours I spent online, going to the camera, messing with settings, and taking more pictures.
Based on a couple of considerations... would you fall into line with other's adoration of the EM-5 if it was ONLY your camera. Take the wife out of the equation, for a moment, and try to realistically answer that question.
If you say, "Hey it would work for me" then may I suggest this. Keep the EM-5, and buy your wife an E-PL3, or better yet an E-PM1. The E-PM1 is currently available at Best Buy (last week anyway) for $400, with the lens.
That way, you could maintain lens interchangeability between the two Olympus camera's. She could use it on the auto modes nicely. In fact, if she could not master (or did not like) the E-PM1, it's likely there is no current Point and Shoot that she will like. The menus and the wheels, and the touch screens are the nature of the beast currently.
Not to insult, although hard to say without, perhaps she needs an older P&S that she did like, or a film P&S and have the processors provide scans. Sorry if that does offend.
I do think the ability to use any stable of lenses you build on both bodies, one for each of you, is a K2BW1S* solution. At the very least you could likely find a near new, low count E-PM1 body used for $250 body only. Then pickup one of the lower price prime pancake lenses to live on the E-PM1 when your SO wants to carry the "small" package.
I suggest this solution solves both of your problems without struggles about who is taking "The Camera" for the day.
If this is not palatable, then I suggest that the problem goes somewhat beyond your wife's feelings about the EM-5.
Frankly, what else is out there? The EM-5 is kicking almost everybodies A__! in the mirrorless cameras, out there. It has certainly put a damper on the Fuji "pseudo" rangefinders, and the NEX cameras.
And the E-PM1 is surely as simple as any camera that has a bigger sensor than the thumbnail sized sensors in the P&S cameras.
Furthermore, it is my own personal opinion that there are no APS-C mirrorless cameras that will deliver a better image than the Sony 16 MP sensor in the EM-5.
*(kill two birds with one system)