What is it that you would like to remember?
Yes, it is time to revive this thread after almost 3 years, then a second, catastrophic stroke and two surgeries. Since then, 8 months in hospitals and in-residence rehabilitation centers. I cannot tell you how many people we have seen in the halls, in the lunch room, in physical therapy rooms with amputated feet, legs, arms and hands; with pumps hanging from their shoulders to replace their hearts; with crouched-over permanent postures struggling with pain, dementia and countless other illnesses; and yes, stroke victims. It was not possible, nor my desire, to photograph these people but to just get to know them. Photographs would have done nothing for their dignity or my perception of who they really are. Only getting to know them and showing them respect and kindness, sometimes with just a smile and a "good morning". Sometimes just bringing them some Starbucks coffee as a surprise. Other times, dropping Krispy Kreme doughnuts off for them to enjoy. And we made some mighty good friends...
It can be said that "dignity" has never been photographed. I think that is probably correct. The images posted upthread come close to photographing what we, the viewers, read into them in regard to what we perceive as "dignity".
I agree with your closing sentence -- that "dignity" is more about the
viewer's inferences from the image, than the image in itself. But then
I believe that is true of all qualities commonly ascribed to photographs.
I wrote and photographed a whole book about that. 🙂
But I'm not sure I'm with you when you say that "photographs would
have done nothing for their dignity or my perception of who they really
are." Photography's purpose, if it has a purpose, is interpretive -- it
gives the photographer a medium of expression, and the viewer an
artifact to consider. The photograph will tell you nothing about who
your subject really is, but it might reflect for us your understanding
or presumption of who you think your subject really is.
Your Krispy Kreme kindnesses are endearing.
How are you?
Before the airport. by sandersnyc, on Flickr
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Scan from wet print 30x40
Regards,
Boris