Roger Hicks
Veteran
Not all people have stories or a wealth of information from which to delve at a familial level. Everyone doesn’t have the luxury of being surrounded by others to discuss books and or experiences with. People come from semiliterate families, abusive families, families without fathers, without mothers, families riddled with addiction or mental illness—less dramatically, sometimes your family does read.
Etymology is rather mundane because all it requires is a dictionary and an excessive amount of time, and the origin of words bears little relation to their current usage. Semantic change is interesting, but it doesn’t prove or disprove a validity of ideas. It may be interesting in a sort of pub-wisdom sense, but that’s about it. I would much rather have discussions with someone who has “been there done that” that someone who hasn’t--regardless of the subject.
I understood your temporal argument completely, but I still reject it because you are presupposing a great deal. i.e. those people have never read the book before, those people are at the same stage of understanding as the rest of the people involved, those people are all heterosexual white people born in North Hampshire, England or are at the same stage in their life etc etc etc. Also it is odd that a person would embrace the knowledge of Aunt Nelly, while rejecting the knowledge of Professor Whoever. It makes more sense, to me, to take everyone for what they are worth.
ok,
off to bed. Thanks for the discussion 😀
Hope you slept well!
Indeed, everyone's families are different, which only reaffirms what I said before:what works for one will not necessarily work for another.
The 'etymology' was a joke. To save you the trouble of scrolling back, when I've been accused of being an expert I tend to remind people of the etymology I learned at a school speech day: it comes from 'ex' meaning 'a has-been' and 'spurt' meaning 'a drip under pressure'. Not exactly a dictionary job!
Fair comment on the temporal argument, but again, it's a matter of whom you meet, where. And whom you choose to meet. Nowhere do I say I reject anyone's knowedge; just that I (sometimes) look for it in different places.
Thanks to you too for the reply. It is often from those whose views we find least immediately congenial that we learn the most
Cheers,
R.
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