Thanks John, I did want the faces with enough fill, but wanted the messy background OOF or darkened, so I did make use of a 2nd light - the reading light.
The Hexar AF has a couple of flash modes, one is the old Konica Flashmatic mode, the other is kind of where the rear curtain doesn't close until it's determined the film got enough light, which pretty much relegates it to tripod, and still subject shots.
I did get good exposures on the faces, and dark backgrounds on several, but others were just composed odd and got a lot of room mess, or underexposed (the cat), or with the kodak film, completley wrong color with the dining room lighting (photos are yellow/orange, but light was soft white).
So I like the dark reading ones best technically. but may try to experiment more with flash and the tripod since I have some slow speed film around.