Any system with an SSD drive could have had exactly the same failure and been just as unrecoverable. The service personnel of any other company would have given you exactly the same recommendation if they were honest: buy a replacement machine (or failed component). For
any computer, a backup system and policy should be installed at the same time that the system is configured for first use. It's that important.
Again: Why do you blame Apple specifically? The Apple systems are no more frangible or likely to have a problem than any others you might buy; industry statistics once seemed to indicate that the opposite is the case, but I haven't looked at any of those statistics in quite a while now. In my personal experience, I've seen fewer and fewer issues with the hardware and operating system given current Apple products.
I'm sorry if this sounds irritating to you, but it's an important and significant thing to understand, remember, and act upon, in a positive manner, right now when you need to either have what you already own repaired (minus your lost data) or need to buy a replacement system. If you don't want to buy another Apple system, whatever other system you buy is just as potentially frangible and you should plan that whatever you buy to replace this one includes the installation of a backup system. If you don't, you're just setting yourself up for another potential loss and more emotional impact.
I've been involved and been using computing hardware and software for my work and play since 1983. I would not dream, even then, of having a system without a backup system and policy in place. As a result, I have not suffered any emotional impact from the loss of many drives (and cpu boxes) over the years, other than the fleeting annoyance at delay in what I'd planned to do on a given day when I had to re-gen a broken hard drive or the expense when I needed to replace a failed machine. Those are transitory annoyances, far far less long lasting or significant than losing several years worth of my photographs, writings, or financial records.
I'd rather annoy you for a moment with a reminder to be objective and take positive action than see you suffer a similar loss a second time. Blaming a brand, a company, and acting on that by not buying another product from them instead of accepting your own actions is misplaced blame in my opinion.
There is no such thing as a 100% defect free manufactured product: any of them can suffer a catastrophic failure at some point or another, regardless of brand, price point, or statistically inferred quality; this is a fact.
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I already know this Godfrey, and those comments are really not helpful. I took full responsibility if you see my references to mismanagement of my backups all over my posts. I'm just ultimately disappointed in the catastrophic hardware failure when I didn't mishandle the computer or anything. The saying goes "you get what you paid for" and what I paid for is hardware that just crashed and ultimately turned my whole computer into garbage when it had minimal use, not to mention my files being lost. When I brought it into the Apple store, they took 5 mins out of their day, and told me just to buy a new one. This $2k+ suggestion in addition to my files lost is a lot to digest. As we all know, these things are not cheap, so with the hardware failing (never had this happen with any other computer), and Apple telling me to "just spend another $2k+", yeah my faith in their product is a bit shaken.
And yes, I know I should have been more on top of the backup but as I said in my original post, I had ordered a massive external hard drive for backing this up. It crashed while I was literally a few days away from the delivery of the drive. I posted the last message to simply complete the thread and send a cautionary tale to others not to do what I did, so how is that misplaced blame? Also, I'm heartbroken at this loss of files, so rubbing it in is really not helpful. Those comments could easily have just been kept to yourself. Nothing against you, but still. I realize you were trying your best to be helpful in the above comments, so I do appreciate that. It's just too fresh to feel "ok" about losing the files and out an expensive laptop.