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bmattock said:Take all the arguments above, pro and con.
Consider that "A soft answer turneth away wrath" - Proverbs 15:1.
On the other hand; consider this.
Just one exercise. Please try this, even if my next words freak you out.
Wherever you see the word 'photographer' in the above thread, make it 'black photographer'.
Now, how do you feel? A security guard comes up to a black photographer and says "What are you doing here?" And you reply "I'm taking photographs." And the guard replies "We don't allow black photographers here."
Do you really feel like being 'polite' to a person who objects to your being a black photographer, while they wear a security guards uniform and bear the trappings of authority?
You might reject my argument - you may feel that I am comparing two totally different situations. Civil rights versus the right to take photographs from pulic property.
But is it really so different? Rights are rights. An infringement is an infringement. There are degrees of infringement, certainly - and I am comparing a small infringement to a large one - granted.
My point is that resistance to presumed authority will come when a certain line is crossed. If you won't object to answering a security guard's questions or if you'll give up your film or delete your images, you might well object if you're told you (black, asian, female, middle eastern, whatever) are not allowed to be.
So some of us draw that line in different places. I draw it fairly early out of the starting gate. I don't ask that everyone do as I do - I realize that there are risks involved - you can be 'in the right' and be arrested, beaten, or harassed anyway. That's life.
Not to put too fine a point on it, a famous man once said that it is better die on one's feet than live on one's knees. A bit overdramatic for this situation, but the thought is much the same.
Best Regards,
Bill Mattocks
And your actual point is? 😕
You seem to enjoy, perhaps thrive, on confrontation and prefer escalating an unpleasant encounter instead of defusing it. DEMANDING your rights is an example of this. But no RIGHT is ABSOLUTE.
From what I've read here, confrontation your style - but it certainly seems to make your life much more stressful than need be.
If you really are as confrontational in day-to-day life as you portray here, have you ever considered getting some counselling in "anger management"?
This is my final comment on this thread - it's turned into a rant.