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Very nice - the little dude probably can't believe its luck after years of poor treatment by its previous owners. Does he let you tickle his tummy? When this happens you really know he's comfortable with you.
BTW I read recently that to relax cats when they are gazing at you, you should look at them and slowly blink leaving you eyes closed for a few seconds instead of looking too intently at them. If the cat reciprocates it means they are relaxed and happy. Turns out that cats apparently do not like people (or other cats) staring at them too insistently as they see this as predatory. The slow blink is how they signal their comfort to one another and if you do the same they with them read it the same way as they would if another cat were doing it. Seems to work with my little dude.
He'll let me rub his belly most of the time.
The eye contact thing is common with a lot of animals. Dogs are the same. They see it as a threat; not predatory, but more of a challenge to fight over territory. Dogs actually like making eye contact with people they like, but if you stare into their eyes, it scares them. cats are like that as well.