Choice is a wonderful thing.
I started photography when speed was the thing. My standard lens was f/1.8, and that was OK, but one should really aspire to faster and faster.
When I got my Minox, and shot so much with that, I became almost apologetic for the f/2.8 lens. Never mind that, with SLR or compact, I shot around f/8 or so, so the max speed was pretty irrelevant. Now, I feel that prejudice creeping in again as I value my f/1.7 G.Zuiko, and the f/1.9 on my Pen. It makes very little difference to my photography. Sometimes, I shoot wide open; often I don't. Sometimes I use extremes at each end; most often I'm somewhere in the middle. That doesn't mean I'm indifferent to the effects of different apertures, just that I make a variety of different images with my cameras, which dictate different settings.
Choice is a wonderful thing.