Hi all,
Firstly, from my snooty photographer's standpoint, no pictures I saw last night were that exceptional. Secondly, MAN are they expensive. Most average at least $2k. And for what? I don't need them to make prints, retouch photos, or make a book. I can do all of that myself.
$2K is NOT expensive for a good wedding photographer. Do you really want to do it all yourself? No you don't, trust me, been there, done that. While I had an amazing wedding photographer shoot my own wedding, I thought developing the film and printing myself would be great. No, it was a helluva lot of work!
Usually my wedding work consists of a 10hr work day on the wedding day, that's not including prep time, emailing or calling bride/groom, coordinating with church/hotel/reception, making a guestbook from the portrait session. Then we're talking editing the wedding images during the week, online slideshow, uploading event, checking back with bride/groom. And I don't care what anyone says, shooting digital is just as much work as shooting film.
There's barely any profit in shooting a wedding for $2K(taxes,products,insurance,studio rent,assistants), if you can get a great photographer for that price, do it. My packages start at $3K and believe me that's not making a huge profit for the amount of work involved.
And forget the relative thing, let the family AND you enjoy the wedding. Let a pro handle the photography for the day.
Now with that said, this is what I would do if you wanted relatives/friends to shoot. Get a bunch of Holgas, load up with film and let everyone shoot. But still let the pro get the important shots.
Have a fun day!