oftheherd said:
I wish I believed that. I had a seller not send product and not answer emails. I went to ebay and never heard from them either. I had another who is now doing the same. It is negative feedback time I guess, but I hate to do that. I really don't understand as the seller continues to get good feedback. Just no product and only one answer to emails saying it was sent late but "was in the mail." That two weeks ago. Small transaction, but things I wanted and did pay for. One other time I went after a person myself on the internet. As I began to zero in on the person, calling relatives and finding other forums the person was on, the items arrived. Very, very late, but they did arrive. I think that person must have had some personal tragedy as there was a sudden cesation of sales and negative feedback began. Most transactions go well, but there are those that don't. As always, buyer beware.
Sorry for the problem here, but certainly the seller should be contacted. It could have been an honest mistake, or one the seller is willing to correct for good feedback.
Sorry to hear of your problems with eBay. I had a recent two packages go astray, but I think it was the postal system, I really do. One fellow had a delivery confirmation slip from the Post Office, so I believe they mailed the box to me. I just never got it.
As to not hearing anything back from eBay, that seems strange to me. I have filed several complaints with PayPal (not eBay yet), and although I won't describe their system as 'prompt' or 'efficient', it did take place. Are you sure you followed the procedure to file a complaint, or did you just send them an email and expect a response? I mean no disrespect, I'm just curious as to how your complaint got no response at all.
I agree that in general, the way to go is this:
1) Contact seller, describe problem, ask for refund.
2) Escalate to PayPal and/or eBay as appropriate.
3) Contact credit card company if paid by credit card.
4) If item cost is high enough and it is economically feasible, consider civil action.
If fraud or outright theft is involved, it is always appropriate to notify the police or investigative agency that has jurisdiction.
You've got 90 days from the transaction to leave negative feedback, I'd save that for last-ditch nuclear option. Especially since the guy can neg you right back. People tend to stop being cooperative once you've called them a crook in public, even if they are crooks.
I kind of doubt it was an 'honest' mistake, although it could have been a careless eBay seller who truly didn't give much of a rat's patoot for following the rules - like not copying photos from other auctions. But that doesn't mean he should not be contacted and asked for a refund first, before anything else is done.
Best Regards,
Bill Mattocks