My main hand meter is a Gossen Luna Pro Digital. Just a little bigger than a deck of cards, works beautifully for both reflected and incident. There is a version of it that also does flash.
I also have a Minolta Spot Meter M (digital, the predecessor of the current Spot Meter F), and a Pentax Spotmeter V (analog). Both bought used very reasonably. No, I'm not a closet "Zonie." I enjoy doing theatre and concert photography, and regular meters take in too big an angle for stage lighting. I can usually guess right based on a regular meter reading plus experience. But once I got badly fooled, and ended up with very overexposed Neopan 1600. Not pretty. A 1-degree spot meter is the only way to be 100% sure you got a stage exposure right, so I bought one, and somehow ended up with two. Post 9/11, I'm afraid to use them on the street, as I'm afraid some moron will mistake them for guns.
Then there's my Mom's old, no longer working Gossen Pilot. On of these days I have to send it to Quality Light Metric for a CLA and selenium cell replacement. Just because.
--Peter