While I have heard that explanation many times. I am glad you tend to think differently when it comes to your personal "standard" lens. I prefer to think of a "normal" lens as the lens which emulates the eye in terms of spatial relations instead of field of view. It's seems to match the way I see, regardless of medium: 6x7, 6x, 35mm, APS-C. And for whatever reason, no matter the lens and field of view, nothing feels the same.
Yasujiro Ozu, the great Japanese film director, preferred the 50 so much that he used it almost exclusively. Now, he was working with vertically fed 35mm film, something closer to a 4x3 APS-C sized negative, so it wasn't even close to the length of the neg diag. Instead of switching lenses, he built his sets specifically for the 50 lens (in order to achieve the field of view he needed). The reason he specified is that it was the least distracting of all lenses--or, roughly, the most similar to human sight.